How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 13:58
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Ask yourself:
What I need from you?
Why do Indian parents force their kids to do stuff?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Why doesn’t the UK change their flag?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Can you list every album you have ever listened to?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why am I so triggered and depressed over a minor thing?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Which is the correct Tamil New Year, Thai-1 or Chithirai-1?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How do you handle your mother-in-law after you heard her talking badly about you in the next room?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Why is only the left side of my vagina bleeding, on and off?
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Procrastinates a lot.
Making more friends is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
When British people write X after everything, are they being serious or trying not to be awkward?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why are people becoming increasingly hostile to pro-lifers? I am pro-life.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why is my ex trying to provoke an argument with me?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.